There have been 2 times in my life when anxiety has manifested itself physically in my body. (As opposed to the racing, obsessive thoughts that were my typical manifestation.)
The first time was nearly 13 years ago when I was walking into Walmart with 3 babies in tow. Just getting there had been monumental. I was on the verge of tears all the time. I was tired. I was hormonal. 3 babies in 3 years did quite the number on me. Just walking into the grocery store seemed impossible. What would I do if one (or heaven forbid 2) of them started crying? How would I fit groceries into the cart with 2 toddlers and a car seat carrier? What if I couldn’t make it through the store without crying?
In that moment I felt panic well up within me, in my chest, & I got back in the car and drove home. I couldn’t do it.
13 years later I’m here again but I’m not getting back in the car. I’m fighting. I’m learning to breathe. Literally & figuratively. And there are 3 main things helping me learn to breathe deeply in this season. Yes, lifestyle change is HUGE. What we put into our bodies and how we move our bodies will help with our mental health SO MUCH. But, for today, these the immediate things helping me…
1. God’s Word is a balm to my soul. I am once again falling in love with the comfort & peace He gives me when I sit in His presence. Oh, He is so good. Summer in the Psalms has been just what my heart needed. I have started a collection of verses that I am writing & putting in my phone for quick recall.
2. Breathing in essential oils in the moment of anxiety. For several moments. Y’all. The research is astounding for oils & emotions. Google it. Read pub med articles. Get high quality oils & start smelling them. Be weird. It’s worth it. (Go here to read more of my story with oils.)
3. Wise, trusted mentors & friends. I happen to have several of these amazing people in my life. One is my actual counselor. Several other friends will meet with me when I need it or “meet me” on Marco Polo. They speak truth from God’s Word to me. They read pages to me from books to encourage me. They talk me off the ledge of bad decisions I want to make in the moment. They share their own experiences from years past. They help me not feel crazy. ha! We all need a few people like that in our lives, right!??
“For no matter where I am, even when I’m far from home, I will cry out to you… When I’m feeble & overwhelmed, guide me into your glory where I am safe & sheltered. Ps. 61:2.
P.S. I wrote this a few days ago and already I’m breathing easier…life is a journey, so many seasons. I pray that through it all I can give Him glory for all He is doing…in the good and the bad and IN THE WAITING!
Thank you.
I needed to hear this, struggles and anxiety began to slide door open to bad choice and thoughts.
On life’s edge.
Sending Blessings of encouragement back to you, today, dear Candace.
You do so much to lift us up, out here! Yes, we can rest in the shelter of our dear Lord and Savior, always…our companion, redeemer and comfort. Thank you for Psalm 61 this morning. The gift of His Word will bring us into the sunshine.
Dear Candace
You have been such an inspiration to me. Have missed your posts. Praying for you for peace in your heart. “The joy of the Lord is my strength.” Nehemiah 8:10
May your heart be filled with joy.😊
Candance thank you for your post. I know that depression and anxiety is not talked about much in the Christian circle, but maybe with people like you being so open and honest about what you are going through it will help others talk more freely and ask for help. I love reading the Psalms, they do calm my anxious heart. I would love to be able to worship and pray as David did, but I believe that he could do this because he had been through so much in his lifetime. I always go back to the Psalms to help me when I need to be calm. So many times in the Psalms God tells us He is our refuge, our help in time of troubles, our strength when we are weak and that He is our rock. Those words comfort me because I know with all my heart that God is with me and He has it all under control. Thank You, Lord, for Your Word and for the comforting and encouraging words contained it it.
Thank you. I love all that you share. YOU are one of the wise and trusted friends that I look to for guidance- even tho we’ve never met.